Parth Choksi

Category: experience

  • Focus on doing instead of how to

    instead of doing we spend more time on how, how much time, whether i will be able to, how good i will be able to do, will i be rewarded for this. etc and less spend time on instead doing it. this is our ego mind, it constantly compares ourselves with others. this ego kill the fun in doing it. when we are in the state of love, we enjoy doing everything, it is because we have less ego in that state. having fun and joy doing things is the key. we should have fun in the process rather than in the results. so whats the solution, if we become aware of our thoughts we can guide our thoughts. if all those type of thoughts comes, you can give less importance to it and dont act on it instead focus on your current activity. second is to uproot it from the root, that is to bring love in you, if you do act of kindness or if you dont act on act of unkindness, Share, then love can come in you. or if you do some ego breaking process, then too you can come directly in the state of awareness

    written on friday 25th may 2010 , 12:35 pm by Parth Choksi

  • see that it is better than worse, than seeing worse than better -pc

  • Ego in Moderation Necessary

    ego in moderation is necessary, without it,
    you dont compete for the best for yourself,
    leading to good food, shelter, knowledge,
    partner, health, comfort, convinience and
    hence and overall good life. All the
    necessary thing in life is attached with
    pleasure which leads to it like taste pleasure
    with food, sexual pleasure with
    reproduction. so that in concious world we
    seek for it. Ego works in a way that you
    want pleasure once you feel it and that to
    better one if there is a choice. thats how
    nature wanted it to be. You should try for
    the best. Thats what nature/god want you
    to do.

     

  • Positive Self Belief

    with time we start to develop negative impressions about
    ourselves which makes life miserable and stop ourselves from
    doing and getting what we want. so at every intervals we need
    to reinforce ourselves with positive thinking through various
    inputs. health plays an important role in maintaining positive
    self belief. so exercising daily is very essential. second is
    reading, listening, watching about something that makes you
    believe that you can, irrespective of all the things that you
    think comes in the way. it is when you will start believing that
    you can do is when you will start doing and living for what
    life is meant to be and fulfill its purpose

    with time we start to develop negative impressions about ourselves which makes life miserable and stop ourselves fromdoing and getting what we want. so at every intervals we needto reinforce ourselves with positive thinking through variousinputs. health plays an important role in maintaining positiveself belief. so exercising daily is very essential. second is reading, listening, watching about something that makes youbelieve that you can, irrespective of all the things that youthink comes in the way. it is when you will start believing thatyou can do is when you will start doing and living for what life is meant to be and fulfill its purpose