Parth Choksi

Author: Parth Choksi

meditation is being with the inner-self. Pleasure takes you away from the inner-self toward the objective world that gives pleasure. you have to stay in the outer world being with the inner-self. Even wanting to do something comes with pure consiousness felt when you are with your inner-self. You can truly focus on your life dreams being with your spirit. Don’t take it in an extreme way, pleasure is also important and for a purpose and many a times it is a necessary. So even that should be done in such a way that it benefits you rather than to harm you.

February 4, 2011
you will be naturally given what your ego could have not given when you will be not egoistic. Giving nature blossoms towards a person only when the ego of the person is not seen. Don’t be egoistic towards getting something. This might not be always true, some persons egoistic themselves will never have a giving quality, so they will never give even if you surrender getting it.

February 4, 2011
the secret to good relationship lies in to surrender yourself to the ego of your partner. Not hard to do but ego of your partner will instantly dissolve and the person will instantly accept you and start thinking for your good and even regret about saying something harsh. This is how love will blossom. The best way is the keep quite and not speak back when some egoistically attacks, criticize, fights. The end result will be that the person will change his thoughts on you and start loving you. ego is all about winning, so once you let the ego of your partner win, ego will dissolve and love will blossom. This is what my father do when i blame, find mistakes of my father and when he keeps quite, ego changes into love.

February 4, 2011
ego seems to protect you but ego in extreme can be your biggest enemy

February 3, 2011